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To the fathers who do not abuse their daughters

On my street I am witness to the young men who carry the pink-flowered backpacks of little girls, who stoop to listen to their newsy plotless...

A Local Man Celebrates International Women’s Day with a Series of...

Seven women have been sexually assaulted in five days on the canal path that runs by my house. I hear this news and I want to dress...

Scarlet

Pain flows through a crimson tide. Pressure of the cold steel knife. Cutting. Biting. Picture perfect, masking sadness with makeup. Pauses, only to bid him goodbye. Parting ways...

Lessons on Assault    

When they told me, I politely dismissed myself from my classroom and knelt over the toilet. They said she got mixed up with the wrong crowd— wrong boy. I tried not...

Tracing

“Are you ready to talk about it?” my therapist asks me for what seems to be the hundredth session in a row. “No.” “Are you ready...

Dismantle

Pack a butter knife for my trip to the jungle There are sweet lights ahead Fresh, wild hope left to wrangle No longer good, hunting stars at...

Silent Night

I was fully clothed. So, Did it happen? I’ve No right to complain. They are just boys. So Not really their fault, they are Just boys. I did not cry Or...

The haircut: 1972

Was he calculating a plan while clipping my hair? He lingered over every move, swirled strands  with the tip of his hand. Softly he said: I’m...

A legacy of abuse: Telling on my brother

A deathbed confession, 1997 Mom unburdens herself only weeks before she dies. She tells me about Mike’s abuse against his children. Her revelations confirm...

Thelma & Louise film stays relevant after 30 years

Thirty years on and the film Thelma & Louise is unique even among an ever-increasing canon of woman-led films. Yes, today we have so...

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The acknowledgement

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I’m trying to be gentle with myself, but what if I never believe my body when it tells me what happened?

Have the time of your life!*

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*Common side effects may include but are not limited to: harassment, stalking, getting drugged, passing out in...

To the fathers who do not abuse their daughters

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On my street I am witness to the young men who carry the pink-flowered backpacks of little girls, who...