May 5th is Silence the Shame Day

May 5, 2021, is National Silence the Shame Day, a day that aims to end the stigma surrounding mental health. The hope is by having conversations and bringing awareness about mental health and wellness...
A blonde white woman wearing glasses, editor Julia Park Tracey, smiles in a kitchen, for Survivor Lit, a literary magazine for sexual assault survivors.

Survivor Lit names managing editrix

Survivor Lit is thrilled to announce a new managing editor—ahem, editrix at the helm. Julia Park Tracey has some 40 years in newspaper and magazine publishing under her belt, including founding a weekly award-winning...

Survivor Lit’s founder to appear on SAAM panel

Founder and executive director of Survivor Lit Kirsten Ott Palladino (she/her) will join a panel of literary arts organizations that support sexual assault survivors.
Rachel Thompson author, activist, sex abuse chat

‘No reason for shame’: a survivor speaks up

Rachel Thompson has, over the years, thought of herself as a survivor more than a victim. “I think I’ve always had that within me [being a survivor]. I literally had to find a way to cope constantly, because I had to.”
photo of person writing on paper photo by Green Chameleon

Writing about my abuser, healing and hard-earned magic

I made a deal with myself: if my dad was too painful to write about, I would stop, knowing my healing wasn’t complete.
carved jack-o-lantern as self-portrait of rape survivor photo by Fredrik Solli Wandem featured on Survivor Lit, a literary magazine for sexual assault survivors

Self portrait

After my twenty-seven-year-old neighbor raped me, I felt hollow.
Author Michelle Bowdler photo by Alonso Nichols

Award-winning writer Michelle Bowdler on her new book ‘Is Rape a Crime?,’ a testament...

In her new book, a longlist contender for this year’s National Book Award in nonfiction, Michelle Bowdler explains how a violent home invasion and sexual assault led her to investigate the lack of investigation into sex crimes.
sexual pleasure as a survivor chocolate photo by Michele Blackwell

Finding pleasure after violation

Those who’ve been victimized need to demand genital joy as a birthright.
This Is My Body: A Memoir of Religious and Romantic Obsession Cameron Dezen Hammon

‘This Is My Body’ explores the confines of faith, fidelity and femininity

During Dezen Hammon's service to the church, she's challenged with offenses ranging from sexism to sexual assault, and outside of these specific insults to her body and heart, her yearning for something more fulfilling compels her to him, the mystery man she is considering doing more with—and realizing she might have an addiction to sex and love.

Male fragility is holding the #metoo movement back

Naming harm is a crucial step in the process, but I’m starting to think the shaming is counterproductive—in part because it doesn’t seem to work.

Recommended Reading

The acknowledgement

0
I’m trying to be gentle with myself, but what if I never believe my body when it tells me what happened?

Have the time of your life!*

0
*Common side effects may include but are not limited to: harassment, stalking, getting drugged, passing out in...

To the fathers who do not abuse their daughters

2
On my street I am witness to the young men who carry the pink-flowered backpacks of little girls, who...